Is anyone out there running out of things to talk about with their significant other? Seriously I have no idea what to talk about with Joe anymore. Other than talking about Sam or what groceries we need or who’s turn it is to do something, there’s not much stimulating talk happening. It sucks really. I have better conversations with my friends than my own husband.
Um, yeah sometimes I think that if we didn’t argue, we would have nothing to say to each other. But then we have a really great conversation from out of nowhere and all seems well.
I think, when we have kids, we need to make a conscious effort to stay connected. It’s hard.
He does seem sometimes like my roommate, versus my husband.
I think it’s ok to have nothing to say. There can’t be something interesting going on all the time.
I agree with everyone else’s comments. Marriage requires effort and often it’s difficult to even FEEL like putting forth the effort. I also sometimes wonder if it’s a matter of never feeling satisfied enough….I wonder if my expectations are too high.
Would doing something fun together help? When things get a bit stagnant at our place, a change of scenery always helps us reconnect.
for us it’s not that we are running out of things to talk about- it’s actually trying to have an uninterrupted conversation.